Ep. 315 - The Doctor Is In Series - Love at First Sight, Is it Possible?

Welcome to the Social-Engineer Podcast: The Doctor Is In Series – where we will discuss understandings and developments in the field of psychology.

In today’s episode, Chris and Abbie explore the complexities of attraction and the concept of love at first sight. They discuss the biochemical responses associated with attraction, the importance of understanding cognitive biases, and the role of familiarity in relationships. [Aug 4, 2025]

00:00 – Intro

00:35 – Dr. Abbie Maroño Intro

01:15 – Intro Links

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03:14 – The Topic of the Day: Love at First Sight

03:22 – Pulling Apart the Fairy Tale

04:26 – Knowledge is Power

05:49 – Why Can’t This Be Love?

07:12 – More Than a Feeling

09:28 – May Impair Your Ability

10:59 – The Rickety Bridge Study

13:20 – Head or Heart?

15:04 – Cognitive Biases

16:16 – The Halo Effect

17:19 – Prototypical Matching

18:51 – I Want You to Want Me

21:54 – Retrospective Bias

23:34 – Feels Like Home

28:44 – Keep One Eye Open

30:32 – A Responsibility to Self-Awareness

32:53 – Wrap Up

33:11 – Next Month: Intuition

33:31 – Outro

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