Welcome to the Social-Engineer Podcast: The Doctor Is In Series – where we will discuss understandings and developments in the field of psychology.

In today’s episode, Chris and Dr. Abbie explore cognitive dissonance, focusing on its impact on self-concept and emotional regulation. They discuss how dissonance occurs when actions conflict with core beliefs, creating psychological tension. Emphasizing self-awareness and reflection, they warn against rationalizing harmful behaviors and highlight the importance of embracing discomfort for personal growth and identity development. [Dec 1, 2025]

 

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Show Notes

Welcome to the Social-Engineer Podcast: The Doctor Is In Series – where we will discuss understandings and developments in the field of psychology.

In today’s episode, Chris and Dr. Abbie explore cognitive dissonance, focusing on its impact on self-concept and emotional regulation. They discuss how dissonance occurs when actions conflict with core beliefs, creating psychological tension. Emphasizing self-awareness and reflection, they warn against rationalizing harmful behaviors and highlight the importance of embracing discomfort for personal growth and identity development. [Dec 1, 2025]  

 

00:00 – Intro

00:26 – Dr. Abbie Maroño Intro

00:43 – Intro Links

02:40 – The Topic of the Day: What is Cognitive Dissonance?

05:53 – A Threat to Self-Concept

07:49 – Commitment to Consistency

09:51 – Freedom to Choose

10:51 – Changing Beliefs

14:19 – Trying to Escape

18:21 – Going From Bad to Worse

21:53 – Self-Awareness is Key!

24:55 – Growth Hurts

28:49 – Everything, Not All At Once

29:43 – It’s Not A Flaw

31:11 –  Wrap Up

31:36 – Next Month’s Topic: Is Everyone a Psychopath?

31:52 – Outro

 

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